𝓑𝓮𝓪𝓾𝓽𝔂 𝓲𝓼 𝓷𝓸𝓽 𝓸𝓷𝓵𝔂 𝓲𝓷 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓮𝔂𝓮 𝓸𝓯 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓑𝓮𝓱𝓸𝓵𝓭𝓮𝓻!

Before we read ahead let's look into the meaning of the beholder... shall we...

Beholder: A person who is seeing or observing something.

There is a common saying that goes," Beauty is in the eye of the beholder", meaning that beauty doesn't exists on it's own but is created by observers and well I personally would have to contradict. What one single may consider beautiful may not be so admirable in another person's eye and needless to say we have all experienced this situation once in our lifetime. In my opinion beauty is not only that satisfies your eyes but also gratifies one's other senses and mind.

As my parents never fail to mention it to me and it is like a sticky note that is pinned to my  heart and in my brain forever, and i quote, " Umaima, beauty is not only what lies in other people's eye, it also lies in the way you speak and in the way you style", hearing these words made me realize that beauty is not only on the outside but also in the inside, it's most particularly in our hearts and souls.

We are living in a toxic world where we tend to believe that physical attractiveness is the only key to becoming beautiful. Social media has shattered our minds into making us believe that being thin is being appealing, it has braced the idea that ,'thin is beautiful'. Social  media and peer pressure influences the way teens see themselves which is a sad reality. media's affect on body image and beauty standards have caused individuals into have eating disorders, depression, drug and alcohol use, cutting, bullying.

Is it really worth it listening to another human being's opinion and ruining your whole day, I mean come on let's all think about this for a second, you are having a wonderful day, full of positivity and suddenly a person who you barely know decides to give their opinion on whether or not you are appealing to them, now hear me out, Are you really going to let that one person ruin your whole day of positivity or are you gonna continue doing whatever you want without thinking if it is going to please them or not! Are you going to care more about your happiness or that one stranger's happiness  and their point of view. 

The most memorable elegant people are those who possess inner beauty, the kind of beauty that accomplish inner peace, the kind of people who are always willing to lend a hand. Those people are the ones that stay in your hearts forever even if you only meet them once. 

I would love to end my blog today with a quote from Salma Hayek, 

"𝒫𝑒𝑜𝓅𝓁𝑒 𝑜𝒻𝓉𝑒𝓃 𝓈𝒶𝓎 𝓉𝒽𝒶𝓉 '𝐵𝑒𝒶𝓊𝓉𝓎 𝒾𝓈 𝒾𝓃 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝑒𝓎𝑒 𝑜𝒻 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝐵𝑒𝒽𝑜𝓁𝒹𝑒𝓇', 𝒶𝓃𝒹 𝐼 𝓈𝒶𝓎 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝓂𝑜𝓈𝓉 𝓁𝒾𝒷𝑒𝓇𝒶𝓉𝒾𝓃𝑔 𝓉𝒽𝒾𝓃𝑔 𝒶𝒷𝑜𝓊𝓉 𝒷𝑒𝒶𝓊𝓉𝓎 𝒾𝓈 𝓇𝑒𝒶𝓁𝒾𝓏𝒾𝓃𝑔 𝓉𝒽𝒶𝓉 𝓎𝑜𝓊 𝒶𝓇𝑒 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝒷𝑒𝒽𝑜𝓁𝒹𝑒𝓇. 𝒯𝒽𝒾𝓈 𝑒𝓂𝓅𝑜𝓌𝑒𝓇𝓈 𝓊𝓈 𝓉𝑜 𝒻𝒾𝓃𝒹 𝒷𝑒𝒶𝓊𝓉𝓎 𝒾𝓃 𝓅𝓁𝒶𝒸𝑒𝓈 𝓌𝒽𝑒𝓇𝑒 𝑜𝓉𝒽𝑒𝓇𝓈 𝒽𝒶𝓋𝑒 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒹𝒶𝓇𝑒𝒹 𝓉𝑜 𝓁𝑜𝑜𝓀, 𝒾𝓃𝒸𝓁𝓊𝒹𝒾𝓃𝑔 𝒾𝓃𝓈𝒾𝒹𝑒 𝑜𝓊𝓇𝓈𝑒𝓁𝓋𝑒𝓈".